"I'm totally in love with her, and that's all that matters," they will say to themselves, clinging to this belief for the next 50 years of an unhappy marriage. People are generally bad at predicting their relationship preferences because their person and needs as a single person are different than when they are in a relationship. As with everything in life, you also need enough experience to be good at it. But we rarely have enough time to be in more than a few serious relationships before deciding on our life partner. If you rush to make these decisions, you run the risk of finding yourself in situations you're not prepared for with someone who may or may not be on the same page as you in terms of life priorities. You'll definitely want to avoid getting intimately involved with a poten...
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